Onan deliberately did not complete the task so he was struck dead as well.
Since she had no children, Judah told his son, Onan, to conceive a child with her. The first mention of a widow is seen in Genesis 38 when Judah, one of the sons of Jacob, had his evil firstborn son, Er, struck dead by God. What does the Bible say about widows and orphans?
If there are none, see if there are any in your neighborhood or community and share the love of Christ with them.There needs to be consideration of the fact that many orphaned children or fatherless children need to grow up in loving Christian homes. So, keep an eye out for widows and widowers in your church. Even though I could never take the place of his wife of sixty years, I wanted him to know that he was loved, valued, and important. This man was relatively self-reliant, but I suspect the hole in his heart was sizeable, and so I did what I could to minister to him. Sixty years! I can’t imagine what it must have been like for him to wake up in the morning and not have the love of his life next to him. When I was a pastor, a man in my church lost his wife of sixty years. The same holds true, I believe, for widowers. Moreover, before her husband died, she had a protector, confidant, and spiritual caregiver to lead her in Christ. Widows and widowers need lots of help and support as they adjust to life without their spouse by their side. She may, or may not, be able to handle these things on her own. There are so many little things in life that she now has to do herself-take care of her home, car, or handle household administrative affairs, for example. Think about it: if you have a woman who was married for forty or fifty years and then her husband dies, her life has taken a dramatic turn. But caring for widows is not merely about financial support. Many don’t need the financial support of the church. Yes, in the present day widows often have greater financial resources at hand-they have insurance policies, retirement savings, and the like. Likewise, what need is there to care for a widower? Should such a man be able to provide for himself? Therefore, they required significant assistance if they did not have family to care for them or if they were too old to marry. Some might object because in Paul’s day widows did not have a means of income.
If a church neglects its widows, then something is definitely amiss. I dare say that the quality of care for its widows and widowers is a barometer of the spiritual health and maturity of a church. For churches, therefore, caring for widows and widowers is of vital importance. If you want to see pure Christianity in action, you can witness it in the care for widows and orphans. Religion that is pure and undefiled before God the Father is this: to visit orphans and widows in their affliction, and to keep oneself unstained from the world. And the New Testament has a number of passages dedicated to the instruction and care for widows, but James’s words stand out most prominently to me:
The Psalmist tells us that God is a “father to the fatherless and protector of widows” (Ps. The book of Ruth showcases the undying love of a woman for her widowed mother-in-law and God’s greater love through his providential care for both widows, Ruth and Naomi. God instructed Israel not to mistreat widows (Exod. The Bible has a number of things to say about widows. But such should never be the case within the church. Death is common, and thus widows don’t necessarily merit any undue attention. In the world outside the church, many might look upon widows as a regular part of life. Within any decent-sized congregation there are bound to be some who are widows, usually those that are older, but in some cases there might be younger widows as well.